“My manifestations aren’t happening.”

Well of course they’re not. Thats why you’re here.

You set your intentions. You journaled out your fears and desires. You wear crystals in your bra. You said “Thank You Universe!” a million times and still… niente, nada, nothing.

You have dabbled in expanding your knowledge of The Law of Attraction. You understand The Law Of Vibration. Yet still, you arent getting what you want.

Its okay sis. Sometimes good things do take time. Like lasagna, or waiting in line at Starbucks.

Sometimes manifestations happen instantly and other times it may take a few days, weeks, months— or even years.

Know that not every desire will come to fruition. Sometimes what we THINK we want, isn’t what is for our highest good. Our preference for what we want may also change as we go through our day to day lives.

It is also possible, when we want or desire something, we may not be ready to receive it.

Imagine if we were able to manifest every and anything instantly? It isnt always for the best.

Lets use $1 million dollars for example.

If you havent learned to manage your finances and strengthen your relationship with money: as quickly as that money comes— it will go. Ever notice how so many BIG  lotto winners end up losing all of their winnings as fast as they won? 

For some people, lessons have to be learned. 

Imagine if you manifested that super expensive luxurious fancy sports car but your income remained the same? 

How would you be able to afford maintaining the vehicle? Making monthly payments along with insurance… Oil changes, new tires when you get a flat, premium fuel?

Now I am not saying it is not possible to manifest a million dollars, nor am I saying it is impossible to manifest a luxury vehicle, but rather I want to help you shift your perspective so that you can understand why your manifestations aren’t potentially happening.

And just because something does happen, or does manifest and an opportunity shows up- doesn’t mean it is meant for us to accept. Sometimes we have to use discernment to accept what is truly meant for us. 

Toxic relationships are a good example of when we may need to use discernment. 

Just because someone appears to be what we think we want in a partner, we have invested so many years, so much energy, maybe even money–doesnt mean they are TRULY meant for us and it doesn’t mean they are meant to be our partner forever.

We always have free will to make empowered decisions.

Sometimes we will experience tests, challenges and opportunities to say NO to situations and things we KNOW are not meant for us. 

Anywho…

Keeping all of this in mind, I wanted to share the top 7 reasons why your manifestations are not coming to fruition. Over the past 7 years of working with clients and through my own personal experience with manifesting, these 7 reasons take the cake.

1. You Are Not Being Specific Enough

If you want to manifest easier and faster, you have to get super specific with what you want. If you are too lax, too vague— your subconscious mind and the Universe will continue delivering non-specific results.

If you want a new vehicle— get super specific about what specs you want. The colour, the make, the model, the cost, the fuel type, the colour rims you want, the interior material and colour, the essential oil plug in you want to use inside, how you are going to fund your vehicle, why and how you are going to make use of your new vehicle, sunroof, tinted windows… make sense? 🙂

2. You Are Too Attached To The Outcome

When we expect something to happen, we are inadvertently using force which repels the exact thing we desire. 

If we are in a state of desperation, the thing(s) we want will not show up for us. 

You must have heard the saying, “if you have to force it, its probably a poo”. 

Shit can be sticky. Even then, it is meant to be released…

We cannot coerce or force our desires to happen, the same way we cannot control or manipulate others to do what we want.

When we trust that what we desire is going to happen for us, there is no need to expect it to happen. It’s already done.

3. You Don’t Trust In Divine Timing

We all want our desires to happen instantly, however sometimes we just have to trust that when something is meant to happen it will happen and when it happens we will be ready and prepared to accept the blessings.

When we truly trust in divine timing, we allow for the delivery of what we want to flow to us with ease whether it be in a day, or a month.

Remember your thoughts and desires begin as etheric energy. Whether it is your health, career, relationships… everything begins as ether and then transcends to physical/material existence.

4. You Don’t Feel Truly Aligned With What You Desire

In order for us to align with what we deeply desire, we have to take steps to make things happen for us.

Wishing and hoping doesn’t work. 

You have to take aligned action. 

Consistently.

Not just when it’s convenient for you.

It is time for you to call yourself out on your own BS. This is YOUR life. 

YOUR HEALTH!

YOUR MONEY!

YOUR PEACE!

If you are just dreaming about change, but are not actually DOING anything to initiate change, what do you think will CONTINUE happening?

You can recite affirmations, declarations and mantras, yes theyre great for shifting limiting beliefs and patterns but if you only do it once a week when you are stuck, or feeling down and you don’t catch yourself when you start mumbling “nothing is happening”… “manifestation is bullshit”…. Simply throw your empty phrases in the garbage.

I said what I said.

If you want a promotion at work, a new job, a career shift or want your business to blossom… what are you DOING to make it happen? How are you showing up? Are your actions aligned or misaligned? You cant twiddle your thumbs and hope for the best. You cant just scroll on Instagram wasting YOUR precious time and energy.

It takes effort to make things effortless.

Aligned actions allow for you to make shit happen. Very quickly. 

5. You Don’t Truly Believe It Is Possible For You

If you continue doubting yourself and the cosmic power within, nothing will continue happening.

If you continue believing that what you want isn’t possible or that it will take forever to happen, trust me—- it ain’t gonna happen.

As soon as you believe what you desire is possible, all of the puzzle pieces begin coming together. 

Believe in yourself. Believe in the power of your energy, your frequency and your vibration.

You are a human magnet. A human wifi router sending and receiving energetic signals.

You can manifest a life you love filled with things you enjoy and are so worthy of having!

If others can acheive what you desire, that means it can be possible for you and then some. 

6. Go Deeper Not Higher

One of the keys to manifesting is allowing yourself to go deeper, not higher.

You dont have to be high-vibe happy and dappy 24/7.

Every emotion that you experience is sacred and is meant to help you evolve.

You are meant to experience a whole spectrum of emotions, not just ‘love’, ‘joy’, ‘peace’ and ‘abundance’.

Sadness, rage, hurt, grief are all parts of yourself that must be experienced in order to grow and heal.

This is what makes you whole.

Avoiding your shadow self/lower self and the deeper rooted emotions that require your attention will only lead to more experiences and situations which further require your attention (and action).

Dump that toxic af partner. 

Trash that trashy friend.

Apply to the job offering $3k more a month.

Take a course to learn how to heal your bodymind to process heavier emotions.

Allow yourself to FEEL the feels, but don’t allow those feelings to control your present and future.

7. You Are Meant To Receive Something Better

Maybe you didn’t get that promotion because you are meant to switch companies.

Maybe your business isnt growing because your processes and strategies needs energetic tweaking so that you can help MORE people. 

Maybe you didnt win that $100 raffle because you are going to receive a $2k income tax refund. 

Maybe that friendship/relationship didn’t work out because the lessons learned have allowed you to grow and develop so that better friendships and partnerships can come through for you. 

Sometimes what we think we want, ends up not being what we need and we even change our mind about what we desire.

You change your underwears everyday right? 😉

One day you want to wear the itty bitty pinky inky, and then halfway through the day you are surprised to realize you would rather be better off wearing those black stretchy grannies…. #iykyk 

If any of these points resonate or make sense, I am so happy you read to the end.

You are not alone and just because shit isnt happening right now, doesn’t mean it wont happen in the near future.

Remember that although we are spiritual beings having a human experience, we are in-fact meant to to enjoy and explore this 3D experience.

This life is meant to be filled with unexpected plot twists and pivots.

I hope that this post provided you with some clarity and insight.

Feel free to share this with a friend, and remember to bookmark my page for future posts. 

Allow yourself to manifest an extraordinary life!

The Sunday Vibes Life 🙂

If you are ready to go deeper with ease, lets work together.

Stay tuned for my next post 🙂

Tabby xx

*Disclaimer: this post is not to be used as a substitute for medical advice or care. If you have any medical concerns, please speak with your GP or trusted medical doctor.